When I read this little history, it took me right
back. I don’t remember what a ‘rat’ was for the
hair. I do remember we had the barber cut our
hair about shoulder length. We, the gang, would
put our hair up in pin curls at night. Sleeping
wasn’t always great. We felt we should
‘modernize’ a little Greek girl. She had
beautiful, long black hair. We pooled our money
together and talked her into going to the barber.
We went with her. It was so hard for her to see
all that beautiful hair fall as the barber cut. She
told us when she went home that night her
parents were furious with her. She did look cute
with her hair cut short. We taught her how to
pincurl it. We sure had our nerve! I remember us
encouraging a girl to stand up straight and be
proud of her height. She had grown fast in
middle school and was beginning to slump to keep
from looking so tall. I believe we were generally
kind to other girls around us.
I remember one night when we slept over at
someone’s home we decided to cut our bangs
short and bleach them blond. We were all for the
‘shock value.’ These memories help me to be
more patient with young, foolish kids.
It was about then I started to do my mother’s
hair. She looked much younger when I styled it.
We also wore ‘Snoods.’ We would tuck the back
of our hair in the Snood, leaving the front part for
curls and bangs. We learned all this from the movies.
I would study the stars’ makeup. I didn’t wear much makeup. When I had an allergy outbreak, my cheeks would be red, and I would have to tone them down
with a little powder. When I didn’t have outbreaks, I would look so pale everyone would ask if I didn’t feel good, so I would have to add a little rouge.
I remember I didn’t like to go to Mutual because there were only two girls in my class, and they never spoke to me. The boys in my neighborhood, Bobby Mower
and Kent Christensen, would come to my house and make me go with them. I’m sure that didn’t go over well with the two girls. They didn’t realize these good-
looking, older boys considered me like a little sister. When Kent would take me home, he would look in my face and say, ”You aren’t wearing make up are?
Don’t you dare!” They were one and two years older than me and wanted to keep me pure. I don’t think I appreciated their concern.
I can see that I was a normal, immature girl. I remember
the drama and the crushes we had. June Cloward and I
would stand on the corner of Center and 7th East talking
after school for hours. Time was never an issue until we
broke up. Then she would run south to her home, and I
would run north to my home, and knew I was going to get
a lecture for not coming right home after school. It
seemed we never learned! One night, I walked into the
house expecting a lecture. The family was all in the
kitchen and didn’t even notice me! I couldn’t believe my
good luck! That stands out because of all the times I did
get that lecture.
Still remembering the young girl that I was, I can see
myself standing at the kitchen sink, looking out of the
window, through the neighbors’ yard and beyond to the
sidewalk. I was watching some girls who were older than
myself, standing and talking. I watched them for a while,
and then I realized they weren’t laughing. I thought to
myself, “I hope I never get so old I don’t laugh.” And then
comes to my memory myself standing on that same
sidewalk with a friend at my side and two girls we were
facing. The one girl must have said something to me that
raised my ire. I slapped her face. She slapped mine right
back. I was so surprised! After that incident, I made a
vow to myself never to let my temper get the best of me.
I believe I was still somewhat passionate about certain
things after that, but a little more cautious.
Summer
We and the neighborhood kids would pick fruit for the
local fruit farmers in the area, mostly in Orem, before the
fruit trees and bushes were removed to make room for
new housing developments. At one time, Utah County,
which includes Provo, was called the "Garden County." We
would gather on a certain corner to be picked up and
transported to the orchards or the berry patches. I
remember gathering apples and cherries; but once when I
went to a peach orchard, my allergies became so bad that
I couldn't see. Obviously, I couldn't pick peaches.
One of my experiences in picking fruit was in a raspberry
patch. You had to wear long sleeves or you would get
scratches on your arms as you walked down the rows. I
hated that. I also hated the water you had to drink that
came from a water pipe in the field. It had such a metal
flavor I couldn't drink it. We didn't have bottled water at
that time.
We would work hard all day; and when we
were brought back into town, money in our
pockets, we would walk all the way to the
park, which was just off Fifth West, and go
swimming. That felt wonderful! But we had
spent all our money at the pool and still had
to walk back home in the heat of the summer.
Oh well, we were young.
In the summer between 7th and 8th grades, we
went up to Brockbank’s cabin at Wildwood.
We would stay about a week. We hiked and
played in the river. That summer, while
playing in the river, June got hung up in an
eddy and couldn’t get out. She had a bad
heart. Everyone was panicking while trying to
get to her. In the meantime, I was having the
same experience, only down river. The third
time I went down I thought, “I am going to
drown.” At that very moment someone
noticed me. I was saved!! That was the most
frightening experience of my life!
We were taken back to the cabin while
someone got hold of a doctor who was staying
in Wildwood. I was put on a couch with no
blankets under me but many put on top. I was
shaking violently. I’m sure I was in shock. I
couldn’t even talk. I learned from that
experience, you always put blankets under a
person as well as over. June was unable to do
any ironing or vacuuming after that because of
her
heart. I’m sure she didn’t miss those
activities. We were all suddenly homesick and
parents were called. We left beautiful
Wildwood.
On Saturdays we would ride our bikes all over
the county. We would go down to the lake and
out to Orem, which mostly consisted of
orchards and a few houses at that time. One
Saturday, when riding up the hill from the
lake, I got a flat in my tire. We usually carried
a patch to put on a tire when it got a leak. I
wasn’t prepared and had to push my bike up
the hill and through downtown Provo. It had
started to rain. In those days, when you ‘went
downtown,’ you dressed up. Women wore
gloves and sometimes hats. That day we
looked like drowned rats and were so
embarrassed to have to walk through
downtown to get home. I’m sure this
generation can’t imagine that.
One adventurous night, the boys in the
neighborhood decided to go up on BYU
campus. The road on the south side of the
campus was open
then. It was rather steep. I remember I was riding
with Bobby on the bar of his bike, and we went down
that hill fast!! I was so scared, but it was so exhilarating.
We were active girls having typical adventures for that day.
We would turn cartwheels on the lawns that went down the
middle of Center Street, dividing the two lanes. That divider
went all the way from First East clear up to the State Hospital.
Uncle Mark was so happy when they took out that beautiful
lawn and made it into four lanes. He was the driver in the
family. We had felt it represented a rather small college
town, and I always thought it was beautiful. When Mother
worked at the State Hospital and I would visit her place of
work, I would look out of the big, second story windows that
faced west down Center Street and admire that beautiful
street.
Back to School
One day, one of my friends and I decided to play hooky from
afternoon school. We climbed up in our loft in the clubhouse.
We could see the school’s field through a little window. We
laid there the whole afternoon and watched different classes
go onto the field for their gym periods. It was so boring!!
That was the first and last time I played hooky!
During the last part of our eighth grade, we prepared for the ninth grade by voting in the new mayor and commissioners. Someone must have talked me into
running for a commissioner. Several in our gang also ran. I was not really confident that I would make it, so the last dance of the year, when the winners were
to be announced, was the most exciting dance I had ever been to. When the winners were announced and I had won Girl’s Commissioner, I was in a daze! We all
had to walk up onto the stage and say something. I’m sure those who know me now know that little speech wasn’t very clear. I’m not sure what I said, but I
think I used bad grammar, and I couldn’t get off that stage fast enough. So much for glory!
The “boys” at Farrer Junior High. Only two boys I can remember were Jack Kelley, second from left, and
LaMar Brown, kneeling in front.
My Mother.
Jackie, Bobby and me. I’m standing on the right.
Back of picture with the names of the eight grade graduates.